I'm a day away from being 29 weeks pregnant, which is just crazy, because that means that it's just 11 short weeks until Elizabeth is due.
So how are we doing with all the tasks we need to get done before the baby arrives? Well....
The day care situation is unresolved, because we are on a waiting list. We won't know until around mid-April whether we got a coveted slot or not. To clarify, this daycare is on campus (meaning super convenient), and the infant "classroom" has 8 spots. Three or four of those spots will be taken by babies who are returning to the daycare in August, so we're up for the four or five remaining spots. Unfortunately, there are about four or five people on the list ahead of us, and one of these terrible people is having twins.
Ah well. I've contacted a woman who has an in-home care license, and she comes very highly rated by the state standards. She's also cheaper than the daycare, and she'll take our little one earlier than the on-campus daycare will (they won't take her until she's twelve weeks old, and she'll take her whenever we want). She doesn't anticipate having any problem fitting us in. But she's not on campus, so dropping the baby off and picking her up will be a little less convenient. Still, as a back-up to the campus care it doesn't seem too bad. As soon as we know for sure that we're passed over by the campus day care, we'll go take a tour of this lady's place.
We are dragging our feet on purchasing a new vehicle. You'd think we'd be more excited, but it's just so worrisome--we want to make sure we get a good deal and that we make a good decision. It's going to be the biggest purchase we've ever made completely on our own, so...we're a little scared (understandably so, I think). Vehicles cost too much money to make a rash decision, and we need this one to be reliable, to last a while, and to fit our family. We're almost certainly going to end up in a van. Why does a couple who will only have one kid need a van, you might ask? Well, because we have two child-substitutes (read: dogs) that we'll occasionally want to take around with us, too. Even though they're small, one can't be trusted to roam the cabin free (especially with an infant in the back seat) and we can't exactly stuff them into the trunk. Given what we're willing to pay for a vehicle, balanced with our particular needs and concerns, vans are definitely better deals than any of the wagons we've seen.
We've ordered the crib, and it will come this Thursday (thank you, wonderful and lovely in-laws)! We still need to move furniture around so that the crib will actually fit somewhere in our house. We probably should have done something about that this weekend, but...it didn't happen. Given that our baby shower (thank you, wonderful and lovely people in the Psychology Department at ECU) will be on April 12th, our laziness is especially unforgivable.
Eleven weeks. Good grief.
Wow -- you're way ahead of me with the day-care situation. It's difficult to decide when to get serious about day-care because we'll have relatives in town who will be able to help us for a time (though we aren't sure for how long!).
ReplyDeleteHow did you go about researching day-care facilities, btw? I feel so in the dark about this one!
Tina, I feel a bit like the blind leading the blind with this question! Michael heard about the on-campus daycare from a colleague, and North Carolina tracks information about licensed daycares and home-licensed childcare providers. There was a website I was able to visit which allowed me to search for childcare options in the vicinity, complete with star ratings (which are given out by the state) and information about whether a particular daycare had ever had violations and what those were, etc... It took a bit of online research, plus making some phone calls. I probably haven't done nearly enough to prepare, but if neither of my first two options work out I'm going to start over again by polling the faculty and staff here (several use daycare). My mother-in-law has offered to help us for the first few weeks when Michael is back in school if we get into the campus daycare (because Elizabeth wouldn't be old enough to attend it until mid-September, and that's if she actually arrives on time), so we're not totally without help--but she has a life and friends and things to do back in Michigan and we don't want to impose on her any longer than that initial period of time.
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